Anyone had any dealings with the CSA?

[Ade-EP23]

Following on from my previous thread should I let my 'girlfriend' drive my EP2, yes I admit I got her pregnant but know we have seriously departed from each other.....anyone had any dealings with the CSA?

Just for the record, I wanted to be a active part in my child life but that would be on a part time basis (sad I know) but she wanted all or nothing. She chose nothing  

I know the CSA have a bad reputation  but are they as bad as they say they are? I have heard horror stories that I dont want to believe!

BTW Am happy to pay for the upbringing of my child.

Fathers4Justice here I come!

[aurora1]

The facts are Ade that you are the one doing a runner and dont want anything to do with me, you are the one that choose nothing.  
Am sure the CSA will be in touch and take you through everything!

[wjr]

:!:

[Zak]

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[Ade-EP23]

Women! Love them or hate them. Us men never do anything right!

[sniper]

:roll:

[aurora1]

Surely any person (man) can see that getting a girl pregnant and then leaving her and then ignoring her and the problem, is wrong?  No??

Or am i just being a typical woman?

[sniper]

Maybe you're being a typical woman by chasing him onto car forums and bringing your personal problems here. And I think getting pregnant is just as much your fault as it is his, so I don't think you can blame him for the pregnancy, they are your eggs that got fertilised after all..
Ade was mearly asking for any info or experience any of us had with the CSA, not trying to pass blame. None of us here know what the situation is between you two, so I think this matter is best kept there.

[chris]

well said sniper, i agree this is a car forem and should be kept that way.

but ade was askin advice and she came passin blame no more personal shit please people

[aurora1]

Firstly Ade was the one who got personal first.  

 Secondly this section of the forum is Offtopic/Anytopic, which I am under the impression that you are able to talk about anything you like.  If you only wish to talk about cars, DONT LOOK UNDER THIS SECTION LOL.

 And thirdly, i know they are my eggs and I am taking responsibility by keeping it and being there 24/7 for the child.  

And when/where did I blame him for getting pregnant anyway??

Think you all need a few reading lesson!! Or your just typical men, sticking together!!

[sniper]

I didn't think your relationship problems and arguments online are really what was in mind when creating this section, as you can see by the other threads concerning this we'd be interested in! How pathetic are you?! And seen as you only have 4 posts, 3 of which are in this thread, I don't really think you count as a true 'member' of this forum! I can smell a ban...
Here's a recap:

Surely any person (man) can see that getting a girl pregnant and...

That's where you pretty much blamed him for the pregnancy

So please, seek counselling, you're obviously a psycho, and my deepest sympathies for your child.

[peepboon]

well, it is hard for a woman to give up a child...think about it, its the process of making life from your own body then having to 'kill' the unborn child is a hard decision for any mother.

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Men get scared cause of commitment, if you guys can work things out then maybe its not so bad? If he is unwilling to commit to a relationship but is commited to being a part of the child's up brringing then dont you theink that is quite a big step? At least he is willing to be part of the child's life instead of running away like some men.

Perhaps that from after the birth of the child and spending more time together, maybe you will realise how much you mean to each other.

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The pregnancy was not planned so it is a major shock, this is the cause of the agrument so maybe you guys need time to cool off? As I said, having a child is not like buying a can of pop, etc...its a huge decision and as it was unplanned then its going to be shock, Stay strong, and I hope you get through this!

Pete

[aurora1]

Awwwwwwwww poor sniper lol, i must have really hit a raw nerve if your gonna ooooh wait for it .................................. GET ME BANNED LOL. Bless ya.

I think u need to take some of ur own advice and get some help as if someone u dont even know as annoyed u that much, u really do need help.

And as I said if you dont want to know.....'STOP LOOKING AT THESES POSTS'
u obviously are interested or u wouldn't keep looking!!

[sniper]

Hit a nerve? Don't flatter yourself, I couldn't care less!! I'm not the slightest bit annoyed, so I don't know where you got that from. Just seemed the best way to get rid of you and your sad little life which consists of getting pregnant and stalking the father
And I'm not interested in the topic, just want to see how long you can moan about the same thing for.. Knowing most girls it can be quite a while!! And I don't even know WHY you signed up to a car forum to moan about getting pregnant to a bunch of people you don't even kow. You sad little loner. Go and play with the traffic, see if you can hit an EP2 , then come tell us about it! :wink:

[aurora1]

Awww u really do need help dont u?